No matter the dynamic you’re a part of, whether a marriage or a relationship. It’s extremely crucial to pay attention to your sex life and spice it up. Yep, we said it out loud! An active sex life is one of the pillars of a healthy relationship. But sometimes keeping the fire alive can be a tad bit difficult, no? Especially when you’ve been with someone for a really long time. Most people say the butterflies fade, and the physical attraction simmers down as you grow comfortable with each other.
And that could definitely cause a hindrance with things happening in the bedroom, no? However, there are always plenty of things you can do to spice things up in the bedroom. Finding new ways to pleasure your partner, introducing accessories and the list goes on. So, if you’ve wanted to add some passion and drama to your sex life, you’ve definitely come to the right place.
Here’s a handy guide to spicing things up in the bedroom.
Start Communicating Efficiently
Good communication is the foundation to make sure any kind of dynamic is healthy. And that holds true for this too. Communicating with your partner about your likes and dislikes in the bedroom will really do wonders for your sex life. I mean, imagine if your partner knew exactly what turns you on. What a wild concept, no? So don’t hesitate to be upfront about your kinks, fetishes and likes in bed.
Don’t Be Afraid Of Kinks
Okay, I personally don’t understand why we never pay attention to our partner’s kinks. Most of us shy away from even broaching the topic, don’t we? However, knowing your partner’s kinks and engaging in them can definitely spice up your sex life and HOW! For instance, let’s say your partner enjoys spanking, it wouldn’t hurt to have fun with it in bed no? Pun intended!
Dirty Talk Can Be Fun
Another act which often gets a bad rep is dirty talking. I mean, what exactly is so scandalous about it? Sometimes hearing steamy things can really turn the temperature up a notch. The next time you’re in bed, try whispering some sweet and sexy words into your partner’s ears and watch them get stunned!
Sex Playlists Rule
These days we’ve got playlists for practically everything, no? So who’s to say we can’t have a playlist created especially for sex? You could make this a fun activity by involving your partner too and adding each other’s favourite songs to make things HOT AF in the bedroom. Hint: The Weeknd makes for a great artist to be a part of that playlist.
Say Hello To Sexting
Alright, we’ve all indulged in sexting. However, not all of us will accept it. Dirty messages have a magic of their own. Texting your partner what you’d like to do to them in the middle of the day can be quite fun if you ask us. Engage in frequent sexting and make it graphic! Trust us, you’re going to love it.
Lingerie Is Always A Good Idea
One can never go wrong with some racy lingerie. There’s something about a pair of lacy intimates that does the trick and drives your partner nuts! Invest in a good pair, that will also help you feel a tad bit more confident in the bedroom too.
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