Very often I find myself sitting and discussing with my friends about how I found this guy so attractive. While many times we bond over the same turn-ons, there are also times when they’re just like, “What??? You’re so weird!”
So, just to see how weird (or not) the turn-ons can get, I asked 23 girls to tell me about the things in men that instantly turn them on. Check it out!
1) “My boyfriend plays a sport, so watching him sweat it out on the field in his tiny shorts is a major turn on for me!”
2) “I don’t know if this counts, but forearms? Shirt sleeves rolled up to the elbow? SO HOT <3″
3) “Strong, nice, and not-too-hairy forearms with the veins popping with a nice watch on the wrist. Just the sight of it makes me go jelly-kneed.”
4) “The way a guy drives (smooth and with one hand) is oh-so-HOT.”
5) “How a guy shaves – weirdly sexy. And guys with nice, masculine hands! LOL!”
6) “Guys who I know my parents won’t approve of immediately. (That’s the rebel talking!)”
7) “Beard. Period.”
8) “A little bit of road rage when he’s driving… not the crazy intense kind, but a little cussing here and there.”
9) “It’s not physical, but I like it when a boy challenges me with 3 simple words – I DARE YOU! Okay, that and morning bed hair with lazy eyes. #TurnMeOn”
10) “When the bulge shows through his pants…”
11) “Abs with the V CUT.”
12) “Sweating is a turn on! Like when it flows down the neck and highlights the cuts. Also when his biceps flex.”
13) “When he comes close to me acts like he’s going to kiss me and then backs off a bit. And kissing on the neck from behind gives me goosebumps!”
14) “When he rubs my feet without me asking him to.”
15) “The feeling of his breath on my neck… man!”
16) “VOICE! A hot voice is HOT!”
17) “I think his chest, it doesn’t have to be fit or something but just the thought of putting my head there. It turns me on if I see a guy with a ‘cozy’ chest probably!”
18) “Fingers! LOL!”
19) “Someone who works hard and plays harder. A man who is ambitious about his goals but doesn’t take life too seriously because of them.”
20) “I used to date this guy with a really hot body. I’d wait for him at his house while he went for a jog, just so I could look at him covered in sweat when he came back. It’s totally gross, but he looked really hot with sweat dripping from everywhere!”
21) “This one time, I was chilling with this (purely platonic) guy friend of mine and he decided to stretch a little. His shirt lifted a little bit and I saw his hair trail thingy and I was weirdly attracted to him. I am as surprised as you are. I’m told it’s also called a guy’s ‘happy trail’ and no, I don’t think that makes it less weird. “
22) “Three words: men in uniform!”
23) “My parents are doctors. So growing up, I was weirdly attracted to guys whose parents were doctors too. In my head, all doctor houses smell a little of antiseptic. So if you really come to think of it, I may be attracted to antiseptic.”
How many of these can you relate to?